WWU Winter Fun Show Recap - Leo

All media in this post comes from Leah (aka the most awesome person ever, who came and hung out with us and took pictures because she's awesome) unless otherwise noted.

I have been avoiding writing this post for the past few days for several reasons.  For one thing, I have had the past few days off work, which is when I usually take the time to blog.  And for another thing, the show...didn't particularly go well.  It's not something that I have really felt like talking about, both in person and online.  But.  If I only wrote about the good, this blog would be kind of pointless.  So here we go.

one of the only photos I took - note the sweatmarks.
Saturday was a cold (compared to the weather we've been having lately), sunny day.  I got to the barn around 4:45 am to help feed and move horses.  Thanks to the temperature drop, Leo had been blanketed after his bath on Friday, so he was still shiny and clean.  We started loading around 6:15 or so, and it was a vast improvement over the shenanigans the day of the Hunter Pace.  Although Leo didn't exactly hop right onto the trailer, he only took a little extra coaxing before he walked on like a pro.  I think last time it took us about 10 minutes and strong levels of coaxing before he'd get on; this time it took maybe 3.

WWU is about a 30 minute drive from the barn; we arrived and Leo unloaded like an actual pro - none of the panicked pawing and kicking from the Hunter Pace this time around!  However, once out of the trailer, he was a little...squirrely.  He did not want to stand tied to the trailer, or to anything, and tacking did not go particularly smoothly because he kept moving around.  Unfortunately, we were in a bit of a time crunch trying to get on and get warmed up, so there wasn't a whole lot that I could do to reassure him about his life other than to try and keep a calm tone of voice while scrambling to get all of the tack items on in the appropriate order.  I threw a bridle on as quickly as I could, and headed to the warm up ring.

[not an actual photo from the show]
Leo started off in the warm up as a complete mess.  He was in full giraffe mode, did not want to walk at all, and did not want to do things like "stay on the rail" or "go into the terrifying monster-filled corners."  Luckily, we were working in reverse order; the people jumping higher were moving over to the schooling ring first to jump while the jumps were big, so we had a lot of time to trot around and attempt to relax.  By the end of what was probably close to an hour in the warm up ring, he was trotting on a loose rein, not spooking at the mirrors, and standing still at the halt.  I had Barn BFF E walk with us up to the schooling ring (same as the show ring) though anyways, just in case he forgot how to walk on the short trip between the two locations.

The change of scenery set him off again, and the addition of jumps (Scary Flower Covered Monster JUMPS) made things revert to their initial frantic state.  There was lots of trotting in circles to start off, and then Trainer K had us start schooling over fences.  It started with many refusals and much panic, but by the end of it we were cantering through our course - not exactly in a hunterly fashion, but not in a way that would terrify small children, either.  He was jumping the jumps, and had stopped running.

Leo and his fan club before our division started
We quickly discovered that Leo was not a candidate for standing tied to the trailer, and as I had a lack of anything to reinforce good behavior, he got to stand inside with me and watch the lower levels go.  Thankfully, one person from our barn had actually purchased a stall, and she graciously let Leo borrow it while her horse was in the ring, so I wasn't stuck holding him the entire time.  I got to hang out with Leah, my mom, and my boyfriend for half of ground poles and half of cross rails, and then it was time to tack back up and get ready to go.  Leo had chilled out significantly on the ground at this point - proven by the above picture, in which he was deemed safe to be looked after by children. We went back to the warm up ring to pop over a few fences and work on slowing down, and then it was back up to the big barn to get ready to show.

actual proof that some jumping occurred at this show
Things that Leo found terrifying:
- the crowd
- being alone in the arena
- probably the flowers
- the crowd
Things that Leo did during our rounds:
- refused almost every jump he was pointed at
- galloped like a jumper
- half reared the first time I asked him to trot past the side with the crowd
Things that Leo did not do:
- bolt in an out-of-control manner
- run completely sideways or backwards
- completely lose his brain to panic

That jump with the red flowers behind the one we're jumping was THE DEVIL
Basically we were excused from all three of our OF classes - warm up, Hunter I, and Hunter II - for refusals.  We were finally getting somewhere on the third trip, when we realized that adding in a crop would be a good plan, but the red flowered demon jump of death got us again.  It was frantic, and Leo definitely started off scared - not of the jumps but of the being alone and especially of the quite sizable crowd of people watching him.  If we had had another round, I think that we would have been successful - Trainer K commented on this as well - but unfortunately you only get 3 trips.  She didn't want to move us up to 2' because the jumps would gain fillers, which would just add something else for Leo to potentially panic about, but she did ask if I would mind finding someone to catch ride him, just to get him back in the ring one more time.  So we dropped our flat class, and forced politely asked an innocent bystander one of the girls from the barn who was there but not planning to show if she would try to get him through the course.  She went in armed with a crop and instructions to not take any shit from him, and with many refusals the first time and slightly fewer refusals the second, they got through it and managed to snag a 6th place ribbon their second time through.

AT LEAST HE WAS THE BEST LOOKING HORSE THERE
So.  Would I have managed to get him through if I had been able to go back in a fourth time? I would like to think so.  Was he kind of a giant asshole?  Yes.  Was he also scared and out of his element? Yes.  But here's the thing.  As the day went on, horses that were significantly more experienced at shows than Leo were having many, many issues with refusals.  Horses that don't normally refuse were freaking out over that stupid red flowered jump.  And by the time we were packing up Leo to go home, he was standing around half asleep.  I found a bag of baby carrots and worked on standing tied to the trailer, and after about 30 minutes he was munching on hay and standing relatively quietly.  And when the time came to load, he stepped onto the trailer like it was the easiest thing in the world.

Photo by Barn Mom C
It was the best of times, it was the worst of times...okay but really, the whole thing kind of sucked at the time and was extremely frustrating, and I was pretty upset about it - to the point where I was considering dropping out of 2'6 and going home because I felt like a failure etc. etc... and the day went on and seasoned show horses were struggling with refusals and Leo turned back into his normal sleepy puppy self and I talked to Leah (who is awesome, btw) and my mom and my boyfriend about it and eventually started to remember that we really weren't expecting any Performances of Greatness when we signed Leo up for this show, and that really it went quite a lot better than it could have gone, and it was a million times better than the Hunter Pace...and there was always, always going to have to be a first show.  If it had gone perfectly, that would have been unexpected.  Despite how difficult it was, it honestly went better than we expected.  It was absolutely better than the first show that we took Griffin to.

I probably won't be showing again until the summer (which is the subject of another post entirely), and the next show is as much of an improvement from this one as this one was from the Hunter Pace, well, I can definitely live with that.

Stay tuned for a recap of WWU Part II - Gracie. 

Comments

  1. Awww <3 honestly the WWU arena is terrifying to SO MANY horses, so for it to be a first show is extra difficult! You guys did really well in a very trying situation. And with a few days distance at least you can identify some positives!

    I'm glad I was able to come hang out with you guys, I had a good time!

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  2. I don't know you and I don't know Leo. I do know sensitive horses and I understand prey animals. A scared horse isn't being an asshole--he's relying on his limbic system to stay alive. He's completely checked out, stressed out, and overwhelmed. To then put a strange rider on to beat him around and "not take his shit" sounds cruel.

    Of course he's scared to death--the people he's supposed to trust are probably scaring him more than everyone else put together.

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    1. I understand where you're coming from, but I feel that you are making some pretty unfair assumptions about me, my horse, my trainer, and my catch rider. Believe me, had Leo been behaving in a way that was entirely fear-based, the situation would have been handled differently; I've been there on other horses at other shows and you are absolutely right - riding in a more aggressive manner is not the right way to go about it. However, that wasn't Leo at this show. Yes, some of the issues were based on fear, but had he been completely checked out/stressed out/overwhelmed, he wouldn't have come out of the ring and gone back to standing around half asleep between trips, nor would he have improved with each trip. And to assume that my catch rider was "beating him around" is incredibly presumptuous - just because someone is carrying a crop doesn't mean that they are excessively using it.
      I appreciate that you have a very sensitive horse with whom you have been working for much longer than I have been working with Leo, but not all sensitive horses are created equal. While this may not have been how you would have handled this situation for your horse, it worked out very well for mine.

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    2. K. I see where you [Aimee] are coming from, but I don't think Kaity even mentioned anything about Leo being beaten??

      I hate to pull the "you don't know me or my horse" card, but I'm pretty sure she has a wealth of good people behind her who know her and her horse much better than an armchair trainer does.

      You own a fractious horse who is in more levels dangerous than what Leo was presenting here - I have saved my own comments about the whole situation with Courage because I don't know him, don't know you, and it doesn't affect my day to day life. In the end, I am happy he has found his person and that's it. Maybe you should do the same if this bothers you so.

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  3. sorry it wasn't the outing you wanted. maybe Leo would benefit from just tagging along to the next show but not competing - so he can get experience and exposure without any pressure of having to perform? sometimes they just need to learn that it's going to be ok, and it sounds like he had started figuring that out by the end.

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    1. I've thought about that, but hauling to them is soooo expensive.. I am planning on hauling to dressage lessons once a month starting this month, though, so that will hopefully help! For a horse that used to go on a lot of sporadic trail rides to random locations, he doesn't really handle new situations all that well.

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    2. Yea that's fair. The cost aspect is real for sure. I like to think about it as an investment tho (as a way of rationalizing it to myself). The cost of shipping out as a noncompete horse could pay big dividends later as the horse assimilates better to the experience. Tho shipping out for dressage lessons sounds like a great way to get him used to the process too.

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    3. I definitely might end up doing that as the season goes on, you never know! The other thing is that for the first handful of shows, EVERYONE wants to go so there probably wouldn't even be a trailer spot open for a non-competing horse!

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  4. It's so rough going to a show and having your horse lose their mind. I always get so embarrassed and flustered at my horse's behavior and I feel like I need to convince people around me that she's not like this normally, I swear. Hopefully Leo will grow up a little from this experience and you'll have better luck next time around.

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    1. Haha I definitely felt the urge, except he can be like that at home sometimes, too. It was still a huge improvement over last time, so I'm really hoping that the next outing will be even better!

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  5. You've got to start somewhere, and even though it was rough, it's good that you got there and got one under your belt. Each time will be better than the last!

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  6. I am so glad you stuck with it - it can be so hard when our horses are just completely wigging out on us. Good for you for still finding the positive in the situation.

    Also - sorry I was a bitch in the earlier comment lol.

    As a sidenote, I just wanted to let you know I have changed my blog name, so it may not show up in your reader list anymore. The new url is www dot twoandahalfhorses dot blogspot dot com. You may have to re-enter it into your reader list to follow again.

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    1. Thank you (: it took a few days to fully process, but I really feel that overall it was a positive experience for all of us. and no worries about the earlier comment at all.
      Also, definitely will look for it, I thought that I hadn't seen any posts from you recently!

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